Conducting a Funeral Service

I recently had the privilege of delivering a Funeral Service for a friend's father.

Funerals are not something I was planning on doing anytime soon as a Civil Celebrant as I did not think I was cut  out for the task.

As I took the stand I introduced myself to the congregation and apologised in advance should I break down during the delivery.

Needless the say I teared up right at that very moment but I managed to compose myself within seconds and went on to deliver a service that was fitting, touching and personal, as I had had the privilege of having known the deceased.

At the conclusion of the service not only was I thanked and complimented by many of the family and friends in attendance but I also received a big hug and congratulations from the Funeral Director who knew I had never conducted a funeral before let alone having to do it for someone I knew.

I guess in hindsight I am more capable than I give myself credit for.

I have been told by so many people over the years that I should get into the Funeral business as, having lost my mother when I was only 9 years old and then losing both my Grandparents as a young adult, (whom raised me after my mother's passing) I was attune to the feelings of grief expressed at the loss of a loved one.

I know I can help those left behind deal with the difficult times that they are faced with with both compassion and understanding, but can I do it without taking that grief on board myself?

I know I want to help, and I know I want to make a difference, but I also know I don't want to fall into a constant state of sadness from it all.

I would be really interested to hear from other celebrants who conduct Funeral services so if any fellow celebrants are following this blog post, please post a reply.

Kind Regards
Katrina